New River Valley Agency on Aging

Serving Seniors from the Blue Ridge to the Alleghany Mountains


Caregiver Resources

CAREGIVER’S CORNER

LONG DISTANCE CAREGIVING

In today’s mobile society, family members may live several hundred miles apart from each other and may be unaware their loved one has unmet needs until a crisis occurs. With planning and adequate support, family members can be involved, no matter how far away their loved one lives.

IDENTIFY NEEDS

Make the most of your visits and find out what your loves ones need. Observe, ask questions, and make planning a team effort. Once you have reached a consensus on needs, you will need to identify sources of help.

DEVELOP AN INFORMAL SUPPORT SYSTEM

Identify what support is already in place. Many people have friends, neighbors, or others who are already helping them. Introduce yourself to these people and let them know they can contact you any time. Reach out to other family members for help. Be specific about what you will do and what they can do to help.

LOCATE FORMAL SUPPORT SERVICES

Gather information about services and programs in the community where your loved one lives. The Eldercare Locater is an excellent resource for information about at 1-800-677-1116. Friends and neighbors are also a good source of information about services they have used.

BE REALISTIC

Caregiving from a distance can be very stressful. You may experience guilt or frustration at not being able to do more. Frequent travel, additional expense, and conflicts with work and family can be exhausting. You will need to decide how extensively you can be involved.


Caregiver Online Resources:

 
AARP:
http://www.aarp.org

Alzheimer’s Association:
http://www.alz.org 
 
Caregiving Support: 
www.caregiving.com 
 
Family Caregiving 101:
http://www.familycaregiving101.org 
 
Family Caregiver Alliance:
www.caregiver.org
 
Full Circle of Care:
www.fullcirclecare.org
 
National Family Caregivers Association:
www.nfcacares.org 
                           
 
Caregiver Support Groups:
Virginia Tech Adult Day Services
(540) 231-3160

 
Grandparents Raising Grandchildren

More than 4.5 million children are living in households headed by grandparents. Many of these grandparents have assumed full responsibility for their grandchildren’s basic needs. These grandparents often lack information about support services, benefits and policies they need to assist in their care-giving efforts.

Listed below are resources and support group information that may assist grandparents in their roles as caregivers:

AARP:
www.aarp.org
 
Brookdale Foundation:
www.brookdalefoundation.org
 
Generations United:
www.gu.org
 
Grandsplace:
www.grandsplace.com
 

Pulaski County Grandparents Raising Grandchildren Support Group

  • meets the second Thursday of the month from 5:30-7:00 pm at Pulaski Elementary School.
  • For more information, contact Cassie Mills at the Agency on Aging at (540) 980-7720 or Julie Williams at Pulaski Community Partners Coalition at (540) 980-3228.